If there has an element "key", your success and which will improve, your quality of life, it is a autonomy. You can work from, to make your own program, your goals without the pressure of requirements of the other. All those achieved their goals in life, they own this: -Autonomy An autonomous mind when it loses, employment, find better. If it boredom, then imagine creating his company. As recently said a man party of no case: - "With the taste of autonomy; a independent handyman who applies Principles of Action in its work earn more than a lazy lawyer can not win.” You have already everything you will need to succeed! Autonomy allows you to keep control of your life. To be free and become the slave of circumstances. You may say, this is all well and good, but I still depends on so many things, what can I do? The first thing to do is conduct an inventory of yourself. > What I can do well, better than others, that excites me? Then begin: Perhaps a small business. Independent, autonomous. Even with the meager shoestring. In parallel with your current activity. Build your independence, day by day. Start small! And expand there, from month to month. In a few years you may have built an empire. Reminder: Develop your ability to autonomy.
To seduce on phone, you need a preparation time. Indeed, everything will play on: Your voice, your tone, your breathing, and of course your words! Don't worry, we have the turn key. To prepare well, we need you train. You can do it with your sister, or himself in the mirror.
The voice: warm, serious, playful, sensual ... Many women have melted to men without having seen through their voice. Very insightful and selective, some women might fall for you in the street or at a party, and change your mind hearing your voice. This is not to say that you also need to change! You just need to use it. Intonation: alive, dynamic, strong, with a smile ... This feels so over the phone. If you talk to her in a bland tone, sluggish, it will not crack. Show insurance. Speak loudly without shouting so she can hear you well. It's too annoying to reapply every time "what do you say?"
Breathing: Before you call, do exercises, breathing with the nose and exhaling with the mouth. On the phone at the same time as you speak, breathe and exhale slowly, with the nose this time. This is not sensual hear breathe jerky behind the phone.
Finally the discussion. It must be well prepared. You should at least have a catch phrase, and 2 questions ready, as a spare. Despite this, do not plan anything you need to tell it because as soon as the discussion exchange turn, you will be short of ideas. So, nothing beats the natural. We just have to bounce on it will give you information.
When the call?
Preferably one business day. In the evening. If you call in the morning, it may be pressed for it to resume its course or his job. It may not be available to you. Never call the weekend. If it is a trendy girl, she will be so busy with her girlfriends she will tell you to remember, which is not safe. In addition, you will spend for a man devoid of social life or not interesting. Finally, do you identify to prevent anyone hearing you what can hinder you if you're the shy type, and choose a time outside your favorite show, not to hurry.
If you feel it's not too available to talk to you, do not insist and say prefer "Listen, can I call you another day if I bother you." Either she says hurriedly, "No, you do not bother me!" is: "yes, I'm really sorry, you remind me tonight to 17h?" or she will say dryly, "Yes, I'm a little busy, in a next". For 3 cases, you can recall but for the latter, it is clear that she is not so interested. It is better to wait a few days to do so.
If it does not pick up after your call, no need to remember right now, she knows it or not your number. She noticed the missed calls your number in every way. Prefer recall the next day or two.
So there is a little slower on the freeway of love? Perhaps you met the man or woman of your life, but the spark needs to be revived. Do not panic! Even the most romantic couples and most perfect of the universe experiencing turbulence areas. Everything your relationship needs is a little push. "Many people mistakenly think that a couple should work together to improve a relationship," "But even if one person changes ... the dynamics of the relationship may change. "Keeping this in mind, here are seven things you can do to improve your relationship. 1. Be present It is sometimes difficult to stay "in the moment", especially with mobile phones ringing and responsibilities at work that take us away from our partner, but we must try to focus on the present moment as much as possible if we want our relationship is healthy. "Try to say yes when your partner asks you," advises "Ask questions, show that you understand and you say" yes "whenever possible. 2. Keep a little time just for the two of you "All couples should have nothing sacred moment for them that in the week" (Friends for life: overcoming a break with your best friend), "whether it be a romantic outing or a quiet dinner at home after the kids are in bed. " 3. Touch You I think in a relationship, "more physical contact to show her affection, such as a hug or an embrace," makes all the happier world. "Call him in the day, just to say hello," suggestion "Be patient and understanding. Everyone is overworked and grumpy today. " 4. Make cleaning "The main points of contention within a couple are money, sex, raising children, housekeeping and in-laws," explain "do your part of the household. "This may seem a trifle if you and your partner quarrel about more serious things, but little things can create virtuous circles. A clean and folded laundry washer help make a happy home. 5. Talk about the minutiae of your day Also talk about sex. "Take the time to reconnect [evening] by devoting half an hour to discuss your days" proposal. talk about your day, it's not a bad idea to continue the conversation on a rogue pitch. "Couples who have intimate conversations about their sex lives are happier in their relationship" 6. Make your partner laugh Nothing like a laugh to brighten her day! If you are not comical in nature, that is not serious. No need to chain jokes to improve your relationship. Go see a comedy, or watch an entertaining program on TV, try to tell it to your partner as soon as you can. 7. Take life easy Sometimes it seems that the human being is programmed to not be satisfied with his life. Cultivate happiness, and generally better atmosphere for your relationship by taking time to enjoy and remember what you love about each other, and tell him what you think. "My love," can you say, "thank you to always tell me what time you come home. "Or perhaps," My heart, I appreciate that you always choose the great restaurants to try. I never have to think about it, and that's really great.